Introducing...

"Magic Relationship Words That Make Sure You Say It Right Every Time In Any Situation With Your Partner, Spouse or Lover-- No More Conflicts That Last Forever, Stonewalling or Nasty Arguments..."

You may not know it yet, but...

There are actually certain words you can say in certain ways to your partner, spouse or lover, that when you say them, you'll not only reduce or eliminate the possibility of either one of you shutting down or getting upset -- but using these words also makes you instantly feel more understood, more loved and connected than you ever thought possible. 

Just continue reading to learn more about these words and how to use them...

Dear Friend,

We're Susie and Otto Collins and as you think about your current and past relationships, we'd like to ask you the following questions...
 

• Have you ever been in a relationship situation where you've said the WRONG thing to someone and you wished you could have immediately taken back what you said because of all the problems it caused?
   
• Have you ever just not known what to say to someone to make a situation work out and you just kept quiet because you didn't want to cause problems by saying the wrong thing or saying something that could be taken the wrong way?
   
• Have you ever wished that you knew what to say to your partner or spouse before you said something that would cause the two of you to become disconnected or even more distant?
   
• Have you ever struggled to find the right words to say to your partner to explain yourself and your feelings?
   
• Have you ever caused a fight with your partner, spouse or lover and you don't even know how?

And finally...
 

• Have you ever wanted to feel more understood by the people closest to you in your life?

If you answered YES to any of the above questions, you are not alone.

Being able to say the right words in the right way is something everyone wants but is not always easy.

Being able to use the right words at the right time so you can speak the truth openly and honestly in a relationship, along with wanting to feel heard, understood and appreciated are some of the biggest challenges that most people face in relationships today.

Saying the wrong thing to someone (sometimes even the smallest thing) can absolutely wreck a relationship.

This is why using "magic words" is so important in creating a close, connected, vital and alive relationship.
 

What Are "Magic Relationship Words" and How Can You Use
Them In Your Communication To Create Closer Connections
With Your Partner, Spouse or Lover?

If you're not getting the love, passion, intimacy or depth of connection that you want--the biggest reason is because of the words you use and how you use them when you communicate with your partner, spouse or lover. 

Use the wrong words in the wrong way and what you get is relationship disaster.

Use the right words in the right way and what you get is "magic."

We call these words "magic" because when you use them they can work like "magic" to open both you and your partner's hearts, create more love, more connection, more intimacy and more of whatever you want in your relationship.

These words can make the difference between whether you feel loved, cared for and connected or you feel alone, separated, distant and disconnected from your partner, mate or lover.

How We Learned to Use "Magic Words" In Our
Relationship and How You Can Too...

Long before we started writing books, doing seminars, creating programs and working with people, like you in our Relationship Breakthrough coaching practice--and prior to our relationship together--we had both come out of long-term marriages.

Susie was married to someone else for 30 years and Otto's prior marriage lasted 15 years.

During that time and in those previous relationships, we both made every conceivable communication mistake you could make.

Saying the wrong thing at the wrong times and doing a poor job of communicating certainly wasn't the only reason those marriages didn't last but putting our "foot in our mouths," using the wrong words or saying the wrong thing to our partners certainly contributed to those relationships ending.

Otto specifically remembers on quite a few occasions, late at night sitting in the basement of the apartment he lived in with his ex, trying to figure out the right words to say to get her to tell him what she was thinking, feeling and why she seemed so distant to him.

In Susie's situation--she and her first husband seemed to just go along living separate lives together until it was clear that the relationship was over.

Communication was civil but frustrating. Susie can recall many occasions where she felt like she was emotionally "clawing" at him so he'd reveal what he was feeling--but never to her satisfaction.

Fast forward several years later after those marriages ended and we got together...

During the first part of our relationship, our bond and connection was so strong and it felt so good being together that we essentially ignored the fact that we had lousy communication skills when it came to intimate relationships.

We were relying on pure magnetism and attraction to make our relationship work.

In hindsight, we have to admit this part of our lives was pretty exciting.

We'd work all day and make love all night--and like most people in relationships, we figured out that we couldn't do this forever.

When the "honeymoon" period of our relationship started coming to a close, we realized that it was going to require more than just magnetism and attraction if we were going to make it for the long-haul.

We somehow intuitively knew that if we didn't learn the secrets to communicating with each other, even though our connection and attraction was strong, we probably wouldn't make it either.

We knew we had to do something and that's when we started studying everything we could get our hands on about relationships.

We read books, listened to audio programs, attended seminars, got coaching, and found mentors--and as a result of our desire to keep our relationship strong, healthy, vibrant, alive and connected...we learned thousands of relationship ideas and started practicing them.

One of the things we figured out as a result of all this studying and really digging deep into our relationships was--

The words we use when we talk to one another matter.

In fact, another thing we discovered was when we felt really close and connected, supported, appreciated, loved and important-- there were certain things we would say to each other (in certain ways we might add) that would help us feel even more connected. So we started doing more of it.

We started noticing these words that worked for us so well and then we started using them more intentionally and our relationship began to blossom and grow even more. 

We learned that if you use the right words in the right way, you'll want to let your old ways of communicating just fade away because this changes everything in your relationship for the better.

It wasn't all that long ago that we were thinking about these words we use that work so well for us in our relationship that we decided to compile a list of them and offer the list to you and anyone else who wants them and show you how to best use them.

Before we give you an example of one of these "magic words" and show you how to use it in your relationship, there's something really important we want you to know... 
 

Why Haven't You Heard of These "Magic Words" Before Now
and Why Do Most People Have Such A Hard time Communicating
 and Connecting With Each Other?

It's not your fault that you don't always know the right words to say to your partner spouse or lover...

After all, how could it be?

How could you be expected to know these words that could really connect the two of you?

You couldn't.

No one ever taught them to you and the big reason is simply that most people don't know them.

After all-- wouldn't it have been great if when you were in grade school learning to read and write that your teachers also taught you the best words to say and how to communicate to create the best possible relationships?

Wouldn't it also have been great if your parents or your early childhood caregivers would have taught you the secrets of communication and the best words to use to communicate with love and kindness and the best words to say to the people in your life to really connect with them at a heart and soul level?

The fact is...your teachers in school didn't teach you these things because they didn't know and your parents didn't know either because nobody taught them.

It's so painful not knowing the right words to say to your partner and not knowing what to do in your relationship to create what you want--a closer relationship with more love, connection and intimacy.

In order to help you create this, we want to share some of these "magic relationship words" with you right now so you can begin using them in your relationship or marriage immediately.

And please make sure that you don't take these words lightly.

There really is "magic" and power in these words.

We've tested them over and over in a real world laboratory we call our own relationship.

We know these words work in our relationship and life, as well as in the lives of our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients, and they can work for you too.

"8 Relationship-Transforming Words"

Sometimes we're so close to some of the relationship ideas we've learned and talk about that we forget how powerful and effective they can be in helping you create more love and closer connections with your partner, spouse or lover.

A friend of ours reminded us of this during an interview he was doing with us when he called this sentence..."8 relationship- transforming words."

He went on to say that "if you learn these 8 simple words contained in this one single sentence, you will automatically begin ending your relationship conflicts today and start experiencing more love and harmony in all areas of your life."

They're words you will use again and again to gracefully and automatically enable you to open a heartfelt dialogue any time you feel the need to speak your truth.

Here are the 8 words and how you can use them in your relationship and life...

 "Because this relationship is so important to me, __________."

These 8 relationship-transforming words can be a communication lead-in that promotes openness or they can also help soften and shift a difficult, tense moment into one where you two move closer together despite the topic.

Let's face it.

Who doesn't want to hear a partner re-affirm that your relationship is important?

These words are so potentially transformational because the one speaking them is clearly indicating that his or her intention is to better what you have together because it is so worthwhile.

After saying this phrase, you can make a request, ask for clarification or share something that you've discovered about yourself. While the crux of your statement might not be easy for your partner to hear, when it's coupled with these 8 relationship-transforming words, there can be a sense of ease and possibility imbued in the situation.

Here's a quick story and an example of these "Magic Relationship Words" in action...

Shirley is worried about her partner Jay's drinking.

It seems to Shirley that Jay turns to alcohol whenever he gets stressed out or feels upset about something.

This is not a healthy habit, but it's even worse because just about every time Jay drinks, the two of them get into a huge fight.

They don't normally argue so Shirley often knows when Jay's been drinking because he starts yelling at her about even minor issues. This usually sparks Shirley's anger and she begins yelling along with him.

She wants to talk with Jay about his drinking and ask him to consider seeing an abuse counselor but is fearful that it will turn into another argument.

Shirley reads some websites that recommend ways of talking with your partner about his or her alcohol abuse and decides that it's time to really be honest with Jay.

Starting her words to him with the phrase "Because our relationship is so important to me..." sets the framework for his being open to what else she has to say and she continues on by sharing with Jay how she feels when he drinks and arguments erupt between them--and that she believes it's time for him to get help.

Can one single phrase change the entire course of your relationships?

The answer is unequivocally YES!

Especially if you've been experiencing any conflict...

Especially if you want to AVOID future conflict...

Especially if you want to learn how to live in peace and harmony with the people who are most important to you...

We can't encourage you enough to memorize and use that one simple sentence for the sake of yourself and for your loved ones right now.

And there's more...

We have over 100 more words, phrases and sentence-starters (just as powerful as this one) that we'd also like to share with you.

You'll find these additional "magic words" in our new book and audio program called "Magic Relationship Words" that you can download right now...
 

Download The "Magic Relationship Words"
Book and Audio Program Now and
Here's What You'll Get...

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The "Magic Relationship Words"  ebook ~146 Pages ~Downloadable ~Instantly Available ~No Waiting ~No Shipping Charges

We've organized this "Magic Relationship Words" book from our program into three parts:

In part 1, the introduction, we give you the "Magic Words Mindset" which is the mindset from which you want to communicate everything to your partner and any other important person in your life.

This is critical. After all, if you're going learn the right words to say, you're going to want to make sure you know how to say them.

That's what we do next--we give you the exact tonality, body language and attitudes you're going to need to know to make sure all the other parts of you are congruent with the new words you're going to be using.

Next, you'll get 83 chapters that are either one or two pages that each focus on teaching you one word, phrase or sentence-starter.

Each of these chapters are written in the same short, consistent format and has three distinct parts--

1. First, in bold print, we give you the magic word, phrase or sentence.

2. Next, we explain or share why we think this particular word, sentence or phrase can work like "magic" for you in your relationship and finally...

3. In each chapter, we give you an example of these words in action. These examples provide a context for how someone else has used these words to create more closeness and connection in his or her relationship and life so you can get an idea about how you might apply them to your situation.

Because this is a downloadable book, you'll get access to this book instantly and you can either read it from your computer screen or you can choose to print it out and read it away from your computer. 

You'll love the short chapter format "Magic Relationship Words" because it makes it easy to read it from cover to cover or just open the book each day and choose one of the magic words at random to practice during that day. The key is to try them out and practice them.

As you go through this information, you will get the most out of it if you ask yourself this question-"How can I use these words or these ideas in my life?"

You might even want to take out a notebook and begin making notes about how you could use these words to communicate and connect more deeply with the important people in your life.

This way, you're not just reading a book; you're actively working through it. This can make a big difference in how well you are able to integrate these ideas into your communication and life.

 

When you order the "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program, you'll also get instant access to the following downloadable mp3 audio recordings that are a part of the package...  

Here's a partial list of what you'll learn when you get the "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program...

• The biggest communication mistake couples make that leads to a relationship ending, separation or divorce and the best words to say to make sure you and your partner stay together
   

• The communication mindset you must adopt if want more openness, love and understanding between you and your partner
   

• 8 things to pay attention to in order to make sure your words match your desired outcome
   

• How to start a conversation in a way that shows your partner you're open to listening and talking about solutions to problems or challenges rather than blaming and criticizing--doing this will feel so much better to both you and your partner
   

• Words you can say that insert a sense of ease into tense times and actually help you and your mate move closer together
   

• The best words to say and use when you want or need to set boundaries or make requests
   

• A quick and easy way to identify your feelings and what you want
  (It will make a dramatic difference in the quality of your relationship when you can get clear about what you want or what's going on inside of you)
   

• Wonderful tools  to communicate what's true for you about situations that may be difficult or may need clarification

• A great way to get someone to listen to you as you speak to them
   

• 8 relationship-transforming words that can help soften and shift a difficult, tense moment into one where the two of you move closer together despite the topic...when you are able to do this, you will develop the attitude that the two of you can overcome anything together
   

• One word you shouldn't say to your partner (or anyone else) when you are making a request of them and the one word you should say instead
   

• A breakthrough question you can use to start out a conversation with your partner that shows without a doubt that you value their opinion--when you ask this with curiosity and an open heart, your partner can't help but shift too and begin to value your opinion more as well
   

• How to make words of appreciation more meaningful when you express them to your mate, partner or spouse
   

• 4 "magic words" to say to your partner when you may be tempted to lash out at them when you feel frustrated, afraid, angry, confused or upset--using these 4 words will not only draw the two of you closer together but make feel more loved, supported and appreciated by your partner
   

• 6 reassuring words that reminds you to "stay open" even if what you're seeing from your partner feels scary or uncomfortable
   

• A sentence you can learn quickly and easily to get your partner to clear his or her mind and pay full attention to what you have to say
   

• A new phrase you can use to say how you feel that also encourages a sense of openness
   

• A powerful thing to say if your relationship has run "off course" and you want to steer it back where you want it
   

• The one thing you should always ask someone before you offer any kind of advice--this makes sure you are honoring them and you're also not doing something they don't want
   

• A great question you can ask to make sure you understand what your partner means when they say something--this promotes better understandings and a closer connection
   

• How to ask someone to just "listen" to you when you have something important to say--this instantly makes you feel more understood, appreciated and valued
   

• A good question to ask your partner if you want to understand how they are feeling about something--when you ask this question, it eliminates confusion and guessing about how they feel
   

• A simple sentence-starter that instantly gives you a way to shift negative energy that could be holding you and your partner back from creating more love and connection
   

• An easy-to-say way to share with your partner (or anyone) how you'd like your communication to be
   

• How to bring up subjects that you or your partner may have felt defensive about in the past and NOT cause a fight or upset
   

• A perfect way you can tell someone about your needs and have them want to help you or do what you ask
   

• A heart-opening question you can ask of your partner when he or she seems closed down or having a difficult time--this one question will help you understand them and what they're feeling or going through as well as have both of you feel more love and a deeper connection
   

• How to bring up a "negative" topic or something difficult to talk about
   

• Words you can use that helps you and your partner become more trustable to each other
   

• The best words to respond with when someone (especially your intimate partner) criticizes you or says something that hurts your feelings
   

• A magic phrase you can not only say to put a positive spin on something negative but it is something you can also use to look to the future with excitement
   

• How to open up conversations to talk about times you were or are angry with someone--when you use these words and start conversations like these, the two of you can stay open even in the midst of anger or an upset
   

• Words you can say to tell your partner about something that's really important to you--even if they don't agree with you
   

• Words you can use to make requests in a clear way that don't cause more struggle, conflict or problems
   

• Words you can use to let your partner know what you need in a particular moment--this one thing will stop guesswork and help you get your needs met because your partner will know them when you communicate them in this way
   

•  Words, phrases and sentences you can immediately start using that promote an attitude of kindness, openness, caring and love in your relationship (even in the midst of conflict or chaos)
   

• And much more...     

How to tell if this "Magic Relationship Words"
book and audio program is for you... 

Plus, if you order now, we'll also include these incredible bonuses absolutely FREE...  

Bonus #1 -- "21 Words, Phrases and Sentences to NEVER Say To Your Partner, Spouse or Lover"--  When you get our "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program, we're giving you over 100 words, phrases and sentence-starters to say to your partner to make your communication really flow and feel effortless and help you make sure you say the right words every time.

Here, with this special downloadable bonus in .pdf format... we're giving you a list of 21 of our top words and things to NOT say to your partner if you want to have a close and connected relationship filled with love, respect and kindness.    

Bonus #2--"10 Communication Mistakes Most People Make In Their Relationships and What They Can Do To Fix Them"  --  This special report by Susie and Otto contains the master keys on how to start improving communication now with everyone in your life. This 21 page downloadable special report is in pdf format.

Bonus #3--"Susie and Otto Collins' Love and Relationship Newsletter"  --  This free weekly email newsletter is filled with practical tips and ideas about how to create better communication, more spark and a deeper connection. You may unsubscribe at any time. You'll also receive free information about how to create better communication in your relationship.

Warning: This "Magic Relationship Words" package that includes the book, the audios and terrific bonuses is not available in stores anywhere. The only place you can get it is here on our web site.

Because this is a downloadable package, you can be reading the information and listening to the audios within minutes.

60 Day 100% No-Risk Guarantee Your satisfaction is assured through our no risk, you-can't-lose, 100%, no-questions-asked money-back guarantee.  If for any reason, you aren't completely satisfied with your purchase, just let us know within 60 days and we'll refund 100% of your purchase price.

Click the "add to cart" button below to download the "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program now... and you'll be on your way to creating instant breakthroughs in your communication, not only with your partner or spouse-- but the other people in your life as well.  

 

Our best to you, Susie and Otto Collins

P.S. Remember, this "Magic Relationship Words" package is not available in stores anywhere.  It's only available as a downloadable package here on our web site. 

Don't put it off. Order now and you'll be taking that all important first step towards knowing exactly what to say and how to say it every time when communicating with your partner, spouse or lover so you can start getting more of the love you really want right now. 


Read what others have to say about our other books, audios, programs and work...

 

Susie and Otto Offer New Possibilities For Creating The Love We Want in Our Lives... "Susie and Otto Collins are an authentic couple who share from their hearts and, more importantly, model what it truly takes to create an outstanding relationship.  "Through personal stories, a wide variety of books and practical ideas, they offer new possibilities for creating and sustaining the love we want in our lives. I recommend their work and appreciate their grounded generosity."                                Kathlyn Hendricks,  Co-Author "Conscious  Loving" and "The Conscious Heart"  Co-founder of the Hendricks Institute for Conscious Living.

 

A Practical Guide To Support You In Learning How To Be Powerful and Authentic In Your Communications... "They've done it again-- With 'Stop Talking On Eggshells' Susie and Otto have written and created a practical guide teaching skills to support learning to love even more. "Stop Talking on Eggshells" is not only instructive but is a tool to support you in learning how to be powerful and authentic in your communications -- the only true way we can negotiate genuine loving relationships."   Leslie Karen Sann Founder of Living by Design  www.living-bydesign.com

Taught Me How To Communicate More Effectively With My Mate... "Stop Talking On Eggshells is an excellent tool that will influence couples to understand each other's reasoning for 'talking on eggshells' instead of just shutting down.   Your info taught me to communicate more effectively with my mate in order to get the love and affection that I need and deserve instead of just walking away from the relationship. It also showed me what to look for and how to end the cycle of 'the dance' in a relationship--the pulling forward and negatively pulling backward in a relationship.   Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to embark on this journey with you. I know that 'Stop Talking on Eggshells' will be a blessing to many." Crystal McDaniel  from Little Rock, AR.

 

This should be required reading before marriage, just like a blood test! "Over the course of this week I have read, then re-read, your newest and in my opinion, your finest book,  'Stop Talking on Eggshells.'  I say that because it touched a cord I wasn't expecting; at times moving me from chills, to recall and then to tears.  Your clear writing, methodical flow, and personal insight spoke to me.  I felt as if I was the focus of your writing and that you were speaking personally to me; listening, affirming I was not peculiar, while offering suggestions of hope.  Unfortunately, I did not discover you earlier to save my marriage; however, I am convinced by practice that your methods do work!  My sincerest thank you for showing me I can have the relationship that I want and deserve!"   "You really hit the mark this time.  Your writing was clear, succinct and flowed beautifully.  This should be required reading before marriage, just like a blood test!" Cindi Keller, Chicago, IL

 

I have no doubt that this book will prove invaluable... "I was one of the people fortunate enough to receive an advanced copy of Stop Talking on Eggshells, and I've been absolutely delighted with what I've read thus far.  As a spiritual and life coach, and also as a busy woman with a large group of friends, colleagues and family members, I have no doubt that this book will prove invaluable.  "I love the honesty and thoughtfulness with which this highly practical information is presented.  The writing style is clear, concise and without frills, yet delivered in a very warm and compassionate manner.  I especially love the questions at the end of each chapter, and find them extremely helpful in allowing me to become more aware of my thoughts, feelings and what actions are necessary to assist me in moving forward fearlessly and with conviction.  "The real-life examples are also very helpful.  Many thanks for such a thorough and wonderful book... the next time I find myself talking on eggshells, I'll have a great reference guide to gently remind me of how to get myself out of that pattern!  What a reassuring thought, indeed!"   Many thanks!   Kim Loftis, spiritual fulfillment coach and author Burnsville, North Carolina, www.KimLoftis.com

 

"Stop Talking On Eggshells"...   delivers to couples the necessary tools and strategies for communicating thoughts, concerns, and feelings without the fear of backlash." Dr. Mike Minihan

 

Practical Help For Anyone Who Has a Desire To Improve Their Relationship or Recapture The Magic... "We are excited about some of Otto and Susie's creative ideas to enhance or rekindle the spark in a relationship or marriage. Otto and Susie are experts on the subject of loving relationships. Their ideas are practical help for anyone who has a desire to improve their relationship or recapture the magic. They are experienced, compassionate, and caring coaches, who have a wealth of worthwhile information to help us all improve our most important relationships."   Roy and Gwen S.

 

                                                 

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